3 Ways to Reclaim Your Life From Toxic Relationships
God bless the child who has theirs own
In life we all have choices, we can choose to say Yes or No. As a divinely guided soul you must learn when to say NO. Learn the difference between being selfless or selfish ,practice creating a healthy balance between the parties in the relationship.
Choosing yourself doesn’t make you a bad person, as many of us enjoy the embodiment of divine feminine energy we get caught up in feeling needed by others and we put that pressure on ourselves to maintain this energy, which makes us the beautiful human beings that we are. But at what cost, at the cost of your health, peace and finances?
Creating healthy boundaries are so crucial in any relationship, whether its mother/ daughter , husband/wife. The goal need to be releasing the toxic way of thinking that someone must be your end all be all. In the scripture you know that god said put no man before me. Let's stand in that word by learning how to set clear boundaries as for some of the most important relationships in our lives depend on it.
Boundaries allow us to take responsibility for ourselves while not shouldering responsibility for the actions of others. Boundaries are invisible lines that say what we will and won’t tolerate.
You can easily fall victim to an energy vampire by enabling mistrusting behavior with the ones you love. I have learned how to say NO. You have to be able fill your cup so that you may have overflow for your loved ones.
This idea is associated with contracts that are made between you and the divine. When you state you're going to do something you have created a vow, spell , contract with yourself, the divine and the person.
So we protect ourselves spiritually by SPEAKING AUTHORITY OVER OUR LIVES and you do that by setting healthy boundaries and following them.
How to create healthy boundaries:
- State the action that you can’t tolerate
- State how that action makes you feel
- State the consequence/boundary you will enact to create safety for yourself
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